1. Dwight's own mouthpiece says that it never happened along with Shelbourne who has a TON of connections into that locker room.
And 2. Like KB24 said, if it happened then it happened after a loss when tempers are high. Dwight played pretty poorly that game, I wouldn't be surprised if Kobe made a snappy comment at him about it.
And more importantly 3. Ever since that game, Dwight's played pretty well. He controlled the boards last night and over the last two games he's missing less easy buckets. If that exchange DID happen, it was an "in the locker room, in the moment" event and it's done.
Here's Dwight's quote from the last game:
“Stay together. Play with a sense of urgency. The biggest thing is that we have got to stay together. We can’t let the tough times that we are in right now make us fold, make us point the finger at each other. We have just got to continue to stay together.”
Taken directly from the Lakers.com official page. Let's try to stay together? I mean c'mon, let the media blow this up, but if you're a Laker fan try not to start throwing people under the buss and point fingers. Have some dignity people.